Learning to let go…

This article is dedicated to someone who’s getting hurt by the people he love…Man, I may not be Mother Terresa to give you wise words of advise and I may not be William Shakepear to arrange my words in such a sequenc so that your heart falls upon it immediately…But this is something just for you from me…

Life is not always fair. There are ups and downs that we have to cope with. Nothing goes according to plan (if it did, you could have surprised me easily). We can only predict the weather, not the future. Everyday in our lives, people come and go. But the people who stay with us for a little longer becomes part of our lives. We share a part of our life with them. When the time comes for them to leave…we just don’t want to see them go away. We don’t want to miss them. We don’t want to feel lonely in their abscense. We fear that the next time we meet, things won’t be the same. Bottom line is we just don’t want to loose them. What we don’t realise is that everything happens for a reason.

Is it our mistake that we care for people too much? Is it our mistake that we love others unconditionally. Is it our mistake that we dedicate too much to the special relationships we have. Don’tbe confused, no, these aren’t mistakes. These are the things that really matter in life. If you care for someone, you have a reason to live, to love someone unconditionally is a great feeling and when you have a special bond, you have a reason to smile.

Please understand, you and me, we’re on the same boat. We didn’t ask for these things, but it happened. But when it happened we accepted it and now we’re afraid that this beautiful chapter of our life is going to be over.

Remember that day in the rexar you asked me “Do you believe in reincarnation?” and I didn’t answer at that time. My answer is No, I don’t believe in it. You already know why. Someone I really cared about died. I tried everything in my power to bring that person back from the dead. But she didn’t come back. Everyday is a pain seeing that person and knowing that she’s not the real her but someone else. She constantly keeps telling me that I’m the same person, but anyone can tell the difference between oil and water. I thought I new how to save a life and I stayed up all night…but she didn’t realize it…and I couldn’t do anything about it when she just got up and left…

You should never weep for those who don’t value your tears. You shouldn’t love someone thinking that you’ll be loved in return. You should be strong enough to let go of the thing you love the most because someday it’ll leave you. My life has taught me this much. But I don’t know why I still can’t see him hurt…that’s why I pretend that everythings alright and say “I’m always fine”…All I’m trying to be is strong. The sweet memories are always in our past. So we should be strong enough not to look back and regret things, but to look back, smile at the beautiful moments we had. It’s just the choices we make…

Tell me something, If you were in the midst of a war and you had 3 options, a sword, a shield and a medikit…but you could only choose one…Will you take the sword and choose to kill…? Will you take the shield and try to defend yourself…? Will you take the medikit to heal yourself when you’re injured…? Or will you take nothing because you can’t take all 3? The choice is yours.